Monday, July 26, 2010

A mentors' mentor

I didn’t know Tarun Sheth, former Head of Management Development of Hindustan Lever – later mentor at the HR Consulting and Search firm, Shilputsi – that his wife founded and run for the most part by his 2 very talented daughters – Shipa and, later – only, Purvi, too well. I was traveling in the hills of Kumaon last week and missed the news of his death in the papers. I came to learn about it from the email of an old colleague and at once knew that I wanted to attend his memorial service on my return to Mumbai.

the missing "merchants"

So, I went to the Indian Merchants’ Chamber Hall at Churchgate on Thursday evening. It wasn’t a very large gathering. I thought that most people who had come were there not merely to mark attendance. – but, because, they genuinely felt that Tarun had touched their lives meaningfully at some point in their careers. And, this was not limited just to the old Levers fraternity. Apart from family, friends and old neighbours there were few elder IIM – A alumni (he taught there before joining HLL) and some senior corporate professionals whom he would have befriended during his Shilputsi years. The current top-brass of “HUL” were conspicuous by their absence except for Harish Manwani and Shreejit Mishra whom I could spot. But, coming to think of it – Tarun had retired in 1987 and most of today’s stars weren’t – so to speak – even “born” then.


The function itself was understated and dignified in keeping with the personality of the man who was being remembered. A small bunch of people spoke – 6 to be precise including his daughter -Atsi and Ashok Vasudevan who sent a very touching voice-recorded tribute from the US.

the amraas guru

The remembrances marked the measure of the man that visibly resonated with the audience. As in modern high rises, low-ceilings being the order of the new corporate architecture - It’s not just they don’t have room in organizations for professionals as tall – but, as RG (an old friend and associate) wrote in his piece in ET (click here to read) he was a rare HR practitioner with a “humane” side (an oxymoron as it may sound to be).

I didn’t spend much time in Lever House between 1983 (when I joined HLL) and 1987 (when Tarun left) – so didn’t get the opportunity to know him very closely. I have a rather sepia tinted recollection of him in his corner room on 2nd Floor West Wing (which was later appropriated by Amy Kharas and successive Heads of Administration) – that was like an in-house shrink’s cabin of sorts before it was turned into a police station interrogation room in times to come.

{I didn't have the privilege of being invited for any of his fabled "Amraas" parties and, so, had no idea of his legendary capacity for mangoes (believe he could down 25 katoris in a single sitting !!). I do remember a funny incident though, when a new recruit – taking his offer to help him “settle in” too literally – went to him for getting a gas connection that rattled even his most unflappable self.}

I was there at the condolence meeting because, for me Tarun embodied much of the values that, the old HLL – that youngsters joined with stars in their eyes - stood for. If today, Lever can boast of the maximum number of CXOs to have come out of its stable spreading across industries in India and, now, even overseas– a large chunk of the credit must go to the likes of the Sheth - for laying the foundations of the HR system which withstood the ravages of time till the 'age of deconstruction' began.

In a way – therefore - I felt, I was representing in a small way many old compatriots - whose careers he had helped to shape - who wanted to be there but couldn't make it - either because of distance or some other reason.

8 comments:

  1. Dear Sandip,Excellent piece on Tarun Sheth and indeed for the yester year generation like us from HLL,he was an institution.As you rightly said,Harish is possibly the last of the Mohican to identify with Tarun as Nitin was not even around when TS left!
    Times have indeed changed and so has our old employer and mater familia for our careers-HLL.

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  2. Like your term "age of deconstruction" - who started it - the other 'Seth' ? :-)

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  3. fyi Nitin Paranjpe was at the memorial~ so were others who did not work for hul at the time of Tarun - I guess that's a great commnent on the person

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  4. never knew much of Tarun at work but seeing his two lovely daughters - whom I had business contacts with seemed to clearly explain what a beautiful family there all were. I knew a guy who worked for them and he was all praises for Tarun.

    I too share your sentiments around Tarun. His death is sad to hear. He leaves a strong memory of 'good feelings' and marks a signature around the famously unilever archetype of yester years. He will be remembered for sure, by those who have had the good fortune to experience him when he lived and what we stood for.


    I was caught with your comment on the 'conspicious by their absence - ..........!!. Years ago, I flew to........to attend a funeral of a Company Doctor at the factory.(He was a very dear friend) NO one from the "concern" were around - just a few workmen. It is a pity that the 'new' forget the past and thereby fail to sanctify the future.

    I wonder when the time comes for each one of us to hang our proverbial boot over the fireplace, and snuggle our grandchildren into our arms as we sniff at the pleasures of a well matured brandy - what would we reflect about our past - the odd 40 years of our professional life? Would we be thinking of the workplans we achieved, or the lives we touched and those that touched ours? And yet, while we know the answer to that, it seems strange that we should continue to pursue that, which was meaningful once, but no longer satiates as much. I often wonder, are we the victims of a myth, we wrote when we were young and forgot to change the story:

    Thank you for your blog and your presence at the gathering - in that, you have been my proxy too, for all things good. All things worth remembering.

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  5. my apologies if i missed Nitin in the crowd. as far as not recognising other "young stars" it's probably a reflection of my own vintage. but, i have heard the same refrain from many "old-timers" of varying seniority who went for the cremation and the condolence ( or memorial) meeting. in any case, the observations were more on a 'philosophical' note (reflections and ruminations in solitude - the general tenor of this blog) rather than a critique of any kind.

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  6. Mr Ghosh,Instead of being apologetic, you should feel proud that the gen next of the 'establishment' have taken note of your blog and cared to join issues with you. So, all's not lost for you ol' chap !!

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  7. I worked with Tarun when he was a consultant with the Lalbhais - he could sniff talent a mile away.
    Rumu

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  8. Thanks, Sandip. Great reflections indeed. Tarun was indeed an institution by himself...
    TMG
    Sydney

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